“Life is a glorious banquet a limitless and a delicious buffet.”
- Maya Angelou

Whenever I have to choose between two evils, I always like to try the one I haven’t tried before.
-Mae West

Just as with life decisions, design decisions should not happen serendipitously. The backdrop of your life should reflect your character and your furnishings should reflect your style. While Mae probably wasn’t talking about the design risk she took when she chose those scarlet velvet drapes with gold bullion fringe, she is talking about learning from your mistakes.

The fear of making a mistake is the biggest reason people live with hand-me-down furnishings and hodge-podge belongings. Many of them get by calling their look “eclectic” but what it may mean is that they can’t make a decision. Don’t let this happen to you! If you have arrived at a fork in your decorating road, take it! In other words, sometimes any decision is better than no decision.

To begin with, be bold in your choices. By bold, I don’t mean paint your family room ‘Brady Bunch’ orange. -- I mean make a choice based on what you like. Don’t live with a wall color that is there because of a previous owner and don‘t choose antique white unless antique white is what you love. If you are in a rental situation and can’t paint, add your character to your space through furniture, art, lighting, whatever. Timidity in selecting your environmental puzzle pieces will result in lackluster and bland surroundings.

Next, exercise your creative power when putting together your space. Don’t like the finish on the table you’ve had for years? Paint it. Shopping for upholstery but don’t see anything you like? Go to one of the many retailers that offer the “pick a frame, pick a fabric” approach. The lead times on these items may be a little longer than having something delivered off of the showroom floor, but 6 to 8 weeks is short in comparison to a lifetime of enjoyment.