If you are a Seinfeld fan, then you certainly know the significance
of the phrase, “Yadda, yadda.” During one entire
episode, Jerry, Elaine, and the gang constantly used the phrase
to skip over certain details. One particularly memorable exchange
occurred when Elaine was describing a date and said, “So
I had the lobster bisque, and yadda, yadda, I never went out
with him again.” George was incredulous and accused Elaine…”You
yadda yaddad the best part.” Elaine coyly replied, “I
mentioned the bisque.” And I couldn’t help but wonder
if the “et cetera” title isn’t kind of like
“yadda yadda”… interesting, but less than
necessary. But then I had to take a second look.
Sometimes the et ceteras of our days are actually the best parts. A Starbucks
White Chocolate Mocha in the morning is of no great consequence
to anyone, and yet it never fails to bring a smile to my face
and a tune to my lips. My husband will certainly attest to the
et cetera status of my 50-some pairs of shoes, but the thrill
of buying just one more pair of sexy, strappy black heels is
completely irresistible. A sparkly brooch, a new lipstick, a
pair of fishnet stockings…all et ceteras, extras, things
beyond necessities, but wonderfully fun parts of life.
I hope that this section of love in bloom is kind of like a White Chocolate
Mocha or a new pair of (non-sensible) shoes; a delicious little
extra that will serve as a sweet distraction from the stresses
of each day.